During Julia’s junior year in college, she met a great guy. But she didn’t want to date him. “I was at the end of another relationship that had been really good. So I don’t think I was psychologically ready to get involved again and at the same time, I was pretty horny,” she recalls.
So after a halfhearted attempt at a romantic relationship, Julia and Steve decided that what they really wanted was “friendship with a little sex thrown in.” For years after that, whenever both of them were single at the same time, they would sleep together. “Friends of mine always used to hope that we would get together, but I always knew there was nothing but friendship,” Julia says. (more…)